Pleased Lovers - Can He Guess Your SECRET SEX FANTASY?

LARISSA’S SEX FANTASY 28,

A) WITH A STRANGER IN A BAR
“ I want him to pretend he’s a stranger at a fancy bar. I would wear thigh-highs and garters under skirt, and he would come up behind me, put his hands around my waist, pull me into him, and whisper, “Do not turn around. Then he would lift my skirt, and we’d make love I wouldn’t even see his face. I’ve always thought that would be pretty hot. Like some secret rendezvous or being a total “dirty girl.”

TED GUESSED A CORRECT:

He said: It’s the one about the bar. Larissa’s into clothing, and I don’t think many girls even know what a garter is! She loves it when I pretend I’m calling her for the first time. Sometimes I pretend I found her phone number on a bathroom wall and leave her a skeevy message.”

WHAT PSYCHOTHERAPIST MARTIN LLOYD ELLIOTT SAYS: Although fantasies are often just fantasies and not what a person would like to act out in real life, Larrissa’s could reveal a side of her that would like to be given permission to be more explicitly dirty. She wants her man to tell her what to wear and be in charge.”

DYNA SEX FANTASY 31

B) AT THE GROCERY STORE
“ It begins in a grocery store very late at night. While I’m pushing my cart around, I notice this person who seems to be everywhere and keeps looking my way. When I get outside to my car, it’s only one there except for this black limo. And it’s him in it!
He’s rolled his window down, and he’s beckoning for me to do the same. So I do. Then he says, would you come over here for a moment please?” And I am in that limo before I can remember if I rolled my window back up! He says nothing just grabs me and kisses me like I’ve never been kissed before. Then my skirt is around my waist, and I’m having the experience of a lifetime.

ERNEST GUESS B CORRECT

HE SAID: ‘I can tell the grocery store scenario is hers, because of how in-depth it is. I’ve talked about fantasies before, but she’s always said that she didn’t have one to speak of! Now it’s up to me to make it happen.”

“WHAT THE PSYCHOTHERAPIST SAYS:

“ Dyna’s encounter with a stranger is a very common fantasy for both men and women. Again, the images are of power, strength, and a loss of control on her part. She wants to be swept into a sexual situation where responsibility and control lie with the man.”

REMINGTON30, SEX FANTASY

C) ON THE FOREST FLOOR
“ We don’t really discuss fantasies it just doesn’t come up, but I would love it if one day he just showed up, picked me up somewhere upstate. We would go into the woods and do it right there, out side, on the ground. If it was storming that would be even more awesome!”

CARL GUESSED A WRONG
HE SAID; I think the one in the bar with the garters is hers. The things she described about herself the things she would wear made me think that’s her fantasy. I can’t imagine that she would have a fantasy set in a grocery store; that doesn’t sound like her at all.”

WHAT THE PSYCHOTHERAPIST SAYS:

“Remington’s fantasy suggests a natural curiosity about the possibility of choosing more exotic locations than the bedroom. She should encourage herself and her partner to seek out new locations as long as they both feel it would be fun and exciting.

CAN FANTASIES IMPROVE YOUR SEX LIFE?

“Sharing fantasies can be a crucial way to keep the excitement between people alive.” Says psychotherapist. Martin Lloyd Elliott author of Secrets of Sexual Body Language. “Few people experience intense orgasm without including fantasy elements in the privacy of their own thoughts. Many fantasies are exciting because they allow us to be free to express our sexuality in extreme forms that we would never dream of doing in our actual lives. What people fantasize about is not necessarily what they would like to act out for real. But he says. “When we show our partners what turns us on, and let it turn us on in front of them, they will almost always become aroused as well. It is a surefire way to add another dimension of sexual truth, openness and therefore trust to any intimate relationship.